be perfect, be perfect!

i have a problem with this constant need people have to define things. define this and define that. is catcher in the rye an existentialist work? are nose piercings pretty or not? i am tired of it. let us now sit down and anti-define some things.
relationship does not equal hugging and kissing.
friendship does not equal being friendly.
distance does not equal sadness.
love does not equal hearts and roses.
the pool does not equal water.

and to sum it all up.

the swastika does not equal bad.